Doctors are trained to diagnose and treat symptoms of illness. Patients come to their doctors with preconceived notions of how they should be medically treated, knowledge gleaned from the plethora of medical information readily available to all on the Internet, books and magazines. More and more patients are finding a gap between their expectations and the reality of their doctor visits.
Some doctors admit that they are squeezed for time, pinched by the insurance company’s scrutiny of their submitted reimbursements and pushed to see more patients by their employers and/or partners. The system no longer allows for lengthy, one-on-one visits with your doctor. The result is that more and more patients report that they simply do not trust their physician.
But what can we do to force our doctor to focus on us? To assert our visit is important and demands his or her full attention and expertise? Do we need to lobby for different rules governing the system? Do we need to pay by the minute so that a physician will review our case until we are satisfied?
There is no need to go to such extremes. By adjusting how you, the patient, approaches the visit you can ensure that you are getting the most out of your doctor.
Patients should be encouraged to enter the exam room with a written list of questions for the doctor they are seeing. And you should insist that the doctor give the necessary time to answer each question. I know of several friends and family members who go to important medical consultations with written questions and a video camera to make sure the answers are well documented for further reflection or to allow for a comparative second or third opinion. Whatever method you use it is important that you are in control of your medical care.